A friend in need is a friend indeed. We all might have school friends, college
friends, office friends and even Facebook friends or other social media
friends. But, in our smart city, are we friends with our neighbours? Instead
of waiting for neighbours to extend their hands, why don’t we volunteer to
offer our friendship.
We all know that friendship is a beautiful bond that brings us joy, support and
companionship in our lives. It is really built on trust and mutual
understanding. True friendship is a different ball game altogether; it goes
beyond superficial interactions and often offers a deep sense of comfort and
belonging.
Our neighbours are a truly great source of friendship in our lives. They are
the people who live near us and have the privilege to share our environment,
and interact with us quite often. If we wish, then they can be a great asset
for us, as they can provide us with help, advice, and socialization.
Be it natural calamity like earthquake, floods, storm or artificial perils like fire,
theft or accident, a helpful neighbour is always welcome. When was the last
time you had a cup of tea or coffee with any five of your neighbours? Do you
remember?
Having caring neighbours can make our lives comfortable and happier. A
friendly smile is infectious and it can create happier moments in our lives.
Right? Neighbours can help us with small things, such as collecting our mail,
lending us some of their tools or even taking care of our residence in our
absence. They may also offer us their expertise, such as suggestions for
repair of our vehicle, teaching our kids. They may share their experience or
give us some useful tips for good health. They can also be like our brothers
or sisters, with whom we may share personal issues.
Friendship with neighbours can also benefit our mental and physical health.
We may invite them at our family functions or play cricket and badminton
with them. It can reduce our stress, loneliness, and depression, as we have
a caring shoulder, a listening buddy with whom we may share our feelings,
and discuss political scenario or take suggestions for the best specialist
doctor or hospital in our town. Friendship may also improve our immunity,
blood pressure, and heart health, as we have someone to laugh, exercise or
relax with.
Needless to say, friendship with neighbours requires good effort, positivity
and etiquette. Just like we seek respect, privacy, boundaries, and
preferences, in the same manner we should give them space and try to
adjust with one and all. Friendship is all about selfless help. At all times, we
should try to avoid gossiping, complaining, or interfering in their personal
affairs. As friend, we must be polite and courteous as well. You might have
experienced that true friends communicate clearly, honestly and respectfully
to win hearts. So, are we ready to appreciate their kindness, generosity, and
hospitality?
You will definitely agree that friendship with neighbours is a valuable aspect
of community life. It not only involves emotional support or intimacy, but it is
a relation like an extended-family that can be cherished for generations. If
we get good neighbours, we will find that they are a blessing. They may
provide help in testing times and can share both joys and sorrows.
We can characterize a good neighbour by friendly behaviour, willingness to
help others, and positive living habits. We have the liberty to choose our
friends, whereas, we do not have the same luxury with our neighbours.
Therefore, fostering a positive relationship with neighbours is very important
for socializing or exploring a harmonious community. A good neighbour
often shares experiences and builds connections with us so that the people
in our community or society can get a more enjoyable and secure living
environment. Always remember that every day can be a friendship day.
Sometimes, our neighbour can help us before our relatives can reach us in
any emergency.
To conclude, you will agree that friendship with neighbours is a valuable and
rewarding relationship that can enrich our lives. It has the potential to bring
us happiness, support and a sense of belonging. However, we need to
maintain and nurture this friendship with respect, trust, and gratitude. In fact,
friendship with neighbours is one of the best gifts that we can cherish and
celebrate for life.
By: Vijay Gandhi
